Yes, I'm a guy...playing a Mithra. Actually, my daughters helped me design the character. I'm ok with it, my friends are ok with it, and I can assume that the rest of you aren't so unfamiliar with roleplaying as to find it weird.
I'm the owner of the little known LS Einzensurvivors. There's a long story behind the name. Feel free to ask if you want to hear about alot of mello-dramatic bs.
Our LS is a friendly one and new members are always welcome. Just introduce yourself to me in game or find one of our members.
Link to offline Macro editing software: http://ffxi.allakhazam.com/db/jobs.html?fjob=2&mid=1114119135658525767
If you've ever lost all your macros you'll understand why.