It all depends on the kind of people you want to be around when you play, really. There are all kinds on Ragnarok, as I would imagine with most servers. Find the kind that you like, and you'll have a good time, otherwise- you'll wind up stuck with the typical drama that ends up breaking new bonds of friendship. It's a sad thing really, ah, well. It's ultimately up to you, I hope you have a good time playing this game whatever your decision may be. ^_^