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Btw Aliza, posting another thread just to ashame Face is REALLY a bad idea, not to mention it result with opposite effect, but it proves that u want this conflict
No. It actually reminds me of the time I was shopping at the grocery with my friend and because Mum wouldn't buy her some sort of rot-your-teeth cereal she dropped down on the ground and screamed bloody murder. Well, you could say that the child really wanted the cereal however that sort of behavior is not appropriate and it is even worse when someone over the age of 8 behaves that way.
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an ugly, fat "FaceInTheCrowd"
I don't believe her intention was to shame him but rather it was her way of having a temper tantrum.
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then Coldharted who mentioned something about Tetsume to jump off cliff or something
Well, really now, why should you or anyone even care is someone tells you to jump off a cliff? Stop being so sensitive, you'll end up having a heart attack from all the stress by the time you're 21.
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He's a high tempered dude (noticed that in few ballistas -_-"),
Science leads me to believe he will pass away at an unfortunatly young age if he doesn't find a more constructive way to deal with stress. We could also say this is like the boy that cried wolf, if he corks off at everything , when something tragic really does happen to warrent an emotional response, instead of eliciting sympathy he may find himself tragically ignored and alone during his time of need.
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seeing my name got dragged into these conflict and got bashed 'cause of my name in other's sig
Yes, we unfortunatly are often judge by those we associate with. It's not fair is it? I wouldn't take it so harshly though, someone recognized you, no matter how negative,the bright side is that at least you weren't ignored right? -.O
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but to flame her; explain to her in a nicer way might not result like this
I think that Tetsume and Aliza are both still quite young and still learning(thankfully). While this doesn't excuse their behavior, there is no better time for them to learn another way.You are right though, they and most of those here are at a tender age where your self esteem is still developing and old farts like me often forget how much "this" sort of thing hurts you when you're that age, especially when you are a female. I don't think I began having much of a self esteem till I was in my early 20's. So perhaps instead of name calling, show her a better way to be, explain to her. We can't change what we don't understand.
Now can one of you younglings please get me my
walker and
geritol before I bust a hip?
Edited, Mon Feb 21 16:18:18 2005 by niobia